It seems to end up in their iCloud calendar instead of their Google Calendar.
I use Google Calendar and have had some problems receiving invitations from people using iCloud calendar (I have an iCloud account but I don't use the calendar). I therefore did some experimenting to try to nail down what was going on:
I created an event on iCloud and then invited my Gmail address. Nothing happened. I never received the invitation.
I created an event on iCloud and then invited a secondary Google Calendar I use (that is
[random string]@group.calendar.google.com) address. Nothing happened. I never received the invitation.
From a second Gmail account I have I sent an invitation to the secondary Google Calendar in  above. It worked as expected.
Some additional details:
My main login to iCloud is a "subaddressedformed" version of my main Gmail address (something like
email@example.com). I have also registered
firstname.lastname@example.org(i.e., my main Gmail address in its basic form) as an account for sending and receiving iMessages.
I haven't tried hard to reproduce this but what I think happens when a friend invites from her iCloud calendar is that she enters
email@example.com the invitee-field in her calendar app on her iPhone and then iCloud somehow interrupts this invitation rather than sending it to my Gmail account.
How is this supposed to work?
It feels like a bug but there should be millions of people sharing this scenario.
I can hardly be the first with this problem?